People who are in serious, romantic relationships tend to have sex. We do this in private, away from the public eye, y'know, in our bedroom, with the door closed? Bitching every time someone even hints at the fact that they have an active and fufilling sex life because you haven't been laid for a while has officially gotten ancient.
I can agree that that does get old. However, you do sometimes overshare about you sexual experiences without being askes for details. I'm guilty of this too, so I think we both need to work on the TMI thing.
I believe that frequent smoking and large amounts of alcohol consumption is unhealthy for a person. I have a large amount of medical information to back me up. Topics at Sanctuary drift. I can be talking about something and not be talking about you. If the conversation has drifted to smoking, I will give my opinion, namely that it's just another way to poison one's body, and as long as I can choose to not be inhaling someone else's smoke, it's your body, your choice.
I understand all of this information, but what I do with my life is my business, and I do know that you respect that. However, it is rude to have a loud convesation about such topics within earshot of the person who smokes or drinks. It's the same as getting in their face about their choices. Have you ever been in public and said something really loud within earshot of a rude person like about cutting in line or something just for the purpose of telling them off without getting in their face? That's what it comes across as when someone hears you saying such things, but not to their face.
I know you haven't been trying to be insulting on purpose. But sometime we all say and do things that come across as insulting, and I know this was your rant so if you want to bitch at me for these comments feel free.
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regna
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Date: 2004-11-30 01:21 pm (UTC)I can agree that that does get old. However, you do sometimes overshare about you sexual experiences without being askes for details. I'm guilty of this too, so I think we both need to work on the TMI thing.
I believe that frequent smoking and large amounts of alcohol consumption is unhealthy for a person. I have a large amount of medical information to back me up. Topics at Sanctuary drift. I can be talking about something and not be talking about you. If the conversation has drifted to smoking, I will give my opinion, namely that it's just another way to poison one's body, and as long as I can choose to not be inhaling someone else's smoke, it's your body, your choice.
I understand all of this information, but what I do with my life is my business, and I do know that you respect that. However, it is rude to have a loud convesation about such topics within earshot of the person who smokes or drinks. It's the same as getting in their face about their choices. Have you ever been in public and said something really loud within earshot of a rude person like about cutting in line or something just for the purpose of telling them off without getting in their face? That's what it comes across as when someone hears you saying such things, but not to their face.
I know you haven't been trying to be insulting on purpose. But sometime we all say and do things that come across as insulting, and I know this was your rant so if you want to bitch at me for these comments feel free.