Actually, my mom is not the oldest of her siblings. She has an older sister S, who lives in the same state Grampa does (I don't recall whether she still lives in the same town).
I wonder whether my mom's attitude about her dad's actions has changed at all since seeing the letter my aunt V (one of her younger sisters) sent out recently. V explained therein her stance on Grampa's actions while she was a child, and what she will permit now (as far as visitation and the like), and specifically stated that while she does not like what he did, she still still loves him. The things he did wrong were far and away from the only things he did, to her and to others.
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Date: 2004-07-27 01:23 pm (UTC)I wonder whether my mom's attitude about her dad's actions has changed at all since seeing the letter my aunt V (one of her younger sisters) sent out recently. V explained therein her stance on Grampa's actions while she was a child, and what she will permit now (as far as visitation and the like), and specifically stated that while she does not like what he did, she still still loves him. The things he did wrong were far and away from the only things he did, to her and to others.