"So, I ask again and understand this is still the same as stated before. Will Ebon and Catchild meet with Reana and J this Sunday with myself, Titiania and Louis to work at the core of the issue before anything else is brought into this?"
reana and ebon are emailing each other about who, when, and where. you will not be mediator. demanding that someone do something your way or loose you as a friend is part of why i will not accept you as mediator. you did not ask if sunday would be ok and you did not ask if you were the best choice for mediator. you hand down demands and ultimatums. i had already agreed to being at a discussion that invoved j provideing it is not in my territory, before you started demanding things. we had tried contacting reana to see if one of several people would be acceptable to everyone, she is responding to ebon's email and to omi's email. her suggestion was for the 17 or 18 not the 11. you don't have all the information from any side and i never said i'd walk out if i didn't like what i was hearing i said i could take my children and my mate and leave if i felt that i was being attacked. if you think i will leave because i don't like what is said you don't know me. i already know i won't like what is said. i already know i will be hurt and that if i want to salvage anything of my friendship with reana i will have to listen to her tell me everything i did wrong and am doing wrong and not respond to it, beyond telling her what if anything i can do to make ammends. yes reana *was* *my* mate as well as ebons. i am mourning the loss of one mate already. i am hopeing not to loose the friendship as well.
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Re: sorry still no validation to reply, this is Dee
Date: 2004-01-09 11:47 am (UTC)reana and ebon are emailing each other about who, when, and where. you will not be mediator. demanding that someone do something your way or loose you as a friend is part of why i will not accept you as mediator. you did not ask if sunday would be ok and you did not ask if you were the best choice for mediator. you hand down demands and ultimatums. i had already agreed to being at a discussion that invoved j provideing it is not in my territory, before you started demanding things. we had tried contacting reana to see if one of several people would be acceptable to everyone, she is responding to ebon's email and to omi's email. her suggestion was for the 17 or 18 not the 11. you don't have all the information from any side and i never said i'd walk out if i didn't like what i was hearing i said i could take my children and my mate and leave if i felt that i was being attacked. if you think i will leave because i don't like what is said you don't know me. i already know i won't like what is said. i already know i will be hurt and that if i want to salvage anything of my friendship with reana i will have to listen to her tell me everything i did wrong and am doing wrong and not respond to it, beyond telling her what if anything i can do to make ammends. yes reana *was* *my* mate as well as ebons. i am mourning the loss of one mate already. i am hopeing not to loose the friendship as well.