What I want

I still need to concise these a bit, I think. Should probably spell-check them as well.

I want to be able to be able to be on my spouse's insurance.

I want to be able to list the bio father of any child of mine on the birth certificate. (TN is a pain in the butt about this. Phooka's birth certificate currently has no father listed because they refused to allow us to put Ebon as the father. Then there are the problems with various state agencies. One said that they needed Warin's info because he is legally Catchild's spouse. The other wanted Ebon's info because he is Phooka's bio father. End result: We got the worst of both.)

Should I become divorced, I want all my spice to be involved in the question of custody and visitation.

I want to be able to take custody of non-bio children should one of my spice die.

I want legal visitation with non-bio children should custody go to someone else.

I want my spice to have next-of-kin status, as well as medical power of attorney and the right to visit me in the hospital.

I want to be able to file taxes as a married unit with my spice.

I want full legal parental rights in regards to my non-bio children.

Okay, need to edit that and e-mail it tonoelfigart