PSA

[omimouse]

I probably should have posted this yesterday, but it got lost in the shuffle of errands and a nasty headache.

Warin's mom has found out about the move. Chances are that the loan payment that we sent is what did it, seeing as the return address had all 3 of our names and the new address on it. No, she hasn't talkied to Warin about it at all; why on earth would dhe talk to him first? I'm feeling squirmy enough about revealing folks that I'll let our source (okay, so I've always wanted to say that) reveal hirself at hir choice.

This is a heads up that drama and attempts at "divide and conquer" tactics are likely to be a'comin' from Huntsville. Knowing that woman, they're likely to be aimed square at the kids.

Why couldn't she be more like Catchild's mom? Huh? Or like Louis's mom? Hell, is basic human decency too much to ask for?

Please, let me be making the wrong call on her behaviour. Please. Please be wrong, please be wrong . . .

Comments

[starcat-jewel.livejournal.com]

Shit in a bucket. I was already thinking that when she found out about the divorce it was going to be Katy bar the door, and this just moves the timetable up.

I seriously don't think you're ever going to be rid of this problem until there's a restraining order -- and even then, I suspect she'll have to spend a few nights in jail before she figures out that it's for real.

[teddywolf.livejournal.com]

The word 'Oy' comes to mind...

[ladyfox7oaks.livejournal.com]

OK- this is obviously a Bad Thing...
And I don't want to make anyone rehash the entirety of a painful episode in their lives...but could someone give me the cliff's notes version of what is happening? Or maybe links to past entries about this?
Why is this person (Warins-mom) getting loan payments- and not the bank? Is she shuffling through someone else's mail? (THAT'S a federal offense.) Who is divorcing what? And what needs to be done to make sure you're safe?
Sorry...lost here...

No contact order

[catchild.livejournal.com]

The lawyer says no problem working a no contact order into the divorce decree and is already drafting one. If folks would please keep me in the loop regarding Kathy's antics I'd appreciate it.

[chaiya.livejournal.com]

Oy. Well, um, I didn't think you could avoid ever telling her about the move. *hugs* all around.