Dearheart, from what I have seen and heard of your style, you would be perfect. At this point, we've all agreed on a mediator. We still need to check with her. I really hope that she agrees. And honestly, while I would love to see you (soon, right?), I don't want to drag someone else into this mess. Thank you for offering.

*hugs* When would a good time to call you be, BTW? Calming influences and a sensible shoulder are good things right now, especially for catchild.