I don't hate her, Drew. I try very hard to not hate anyone.
Yes, she has emotions and viewpoints. They are hers, and I do not seek to deny her her right to them. She does not have the right to attempt to force anyone else to live by her standards. She has no excuse for this; she has no right to this. She has ignored our requests, our boundaries, our values and ethics.
As far as I can tell, she does not care about what any of her family -no, what anyone- wants, only about what she wants. To me, this is the basic definition of evil. Puting your wants/needs above those of others is one thing. Not caring about those wants/needs is something else entirely.
I speak for myself, and, I think, for everyone else down here (correct me if I'm wrong, folks) when I say that reconciliation is no longer what we are searching for. Instead, what we want is closure.
-sigh- -hugs- Love you, sweetie. I'm just so incredibly tired of Kathy.
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regna
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Date: 2006-03-10 06:01 am (UTC)Yes, she has emotions and viewpoints. They are hers, and I do not seek to deny her her right to them. She does not have the right to attempt to force anyone else to live by her standards. She has no excuse for this; she has no right to this. She has ignored our requests, our boundaries, our values and ethics.
As far as I can tell, she does not care about what any of her family -no, what anyone- wants, only about what she wants. To me, this is the basic definition of evil. Puting your wants/needs above those of others is one thing. Not caring about those wants/needs is something else entirely.
I speak for myself, and, I think, for everyone else down here (correct me if I'm wrong, folks) when I say that reconciliation is no longer what we are searching for. Instead, what we want is closure.
-sigh- -hugs- Love you, sweetie. I'm just so incredibly tired of Kathy.