After the conversation I had with Catchild my thoughts still stand. After meditation, grounding and calming, my thoughts still stand. I love each of you at Sanctuary and I will greatly miss you but I cannot allow myself to continue a friendship with someone who refuses to see another side. I am an adult, I love to play just like everyone else but I am an adult and I expect my friends to act like adults as well. I will not listen to someone else berate a friend. I see both Catchild and Reana as sisters. I love them equally but that does not mean that I have to like their behavior. I addressed what Catchild spoke to me in the previous entry and while yes this matter involves the entire family, myself included that does not mean that everyone has to be there. I do beleive that there should be another meeting after this for the entire family however, the core issues have to be solved. The core of this issue involves 4 people and only they can work it out. Adding more outside interference will only add to this. Catchild said that if the children were there that she beleives people will be less likely to be loud or violent. What if things do get loud or even need to get loud? Do the children need to be exposed to that? I truely do not beleive so.
You are right Omi, friends do forgive each other, at least they should. I do not see forgiveness coming from either side at this point and I do greatly want to see that However, if both sides cannot agree to try to be adult enough to sit together and work out the core of the problems then there is no friendship to be saved. As I said in my entry Omi, I thought on it and even slept before I made it. It was not made in anger or hurt, just straight and to the point. I answered what was said in a telephone conversation that I could not answer on the phone for fear of hurting Catchild by lashing out instead of it being stated honest and straight forth. You know as well as anyone I can be incredibly cold when hurt and I did not want that directed at someone.
So, I ask again and understand this is still the same as stated before. Will Ebon and Catchild meet with Reana and J this Sunday with myself, Titiania and Louis to work at the core of the issue before anything else is brought into this?
Re: sorry still no validation to reply, this is Dee
After the conversation I had with Catchild my thoughts still stand. After meditation, grounding and calming, my thoughts still stand. I love each of you at Sanctuary and I will greatly miss you but I cannot allow myself to continue a friendship with someone who refuses to see another side. I am an adult, I love to play just like everyone else but I am an adult and I expect my friends to act like adults as well. I will not listen to someone else berate a friend. I see both Catchild and Reana as sisters. I love them equally but that does not mean that I have to like their behavior. I addressed what Catchild spoke to me in the previous entry and while yes this matter involves the entire family, myself included that does not mean that everyone has to be there. I do beleive that there should be another meeting after this for the entire family however, the core issues have to be solved. The core of this issue involves 4 people and only they can work it out. Adding more outside interference will only add to this. Catchild said that if the children were there that she beleives people will be less likely to be loud or violent. What if things do get loud or even need to get loud? Do the children need to be exposed to that? I truely do not beleive so.
You are right Omi, friends do forgive each other, at least they should. I do not see forgiveness coming from either side at this point and I do greatly want to see that However, if both sides cannot agree to try to be adult enough to sit together and work out the core of the problems then there is no friendship to be saved. As I said in my entry Omi, I thought on it and even slept before I made it. It was not made in anger or hurt, just straight and to the point. I answered what was said in a telephone conversation that I could not answer on the phone for fear of hurting Catchild by lashing out instead of it being stated honest and straight forth. You know as well as anyone I can be incredibly cold when hurt and I did not want that directed at someone.
So, I ask again and understand this is still the same as stated before. Will Ebon and Catchild meet with Reana and J this Sunday with myself, Titiania and Louis to work at the core of the issue before anything else is brought into this?